Ask Eric: How to handle feeling hurt by your husband’s TV streaming cheating

Dear Tuned Out,

It sounds like you’ve encountered a common dilemma in the world of streaming entertainment – what some call “streaming cheating.” It can be tough when one person gets a little too eager and watches ahead without the other. The temptation to binge-watch is real, especially with shows that end on cliffhangers or automatically queue up the next episode.

While your husband should have stuck to the agreement to watch together, it seems like a modern hiccup rather than a deeper issue. It’s understandable that you feel hurt, as watching a series together can create a shared experience that’s important to you. It’s essential to have a conversation with your husband to clear the air and make sure you’re both on the same page for future activities.

In the end, it’s all about finding a balance and enjoying the time you spend together, even if it means one of you has to re-watch an episode or two. It’s a small bump in the road of your marriage, and with communication and understanding, you can move past it and continue enjoying your shared experiences.

Dear Fed Up,

It sounds like your brother-in-law’s hospitality is overshadowed by his constant criticism of your eating habits. It’s never pleasant to be berated for not eating as much as someone thinks you should. You have every right to set boundaries and not subject yourself to that kind of treatment.

It’s important to have a conversation with your husband about how uncomfortable and unwelcoming these visits have become due to his brother’s behavior. While it may be awkward, it’s essential to address the situation and ensure your well-being is a priority. Your husband may need to have a difficult conversation with his brother to set boundaries and address the hurtful comments.

Remember, you have the right to advocate for yourself and stand up against behaviors that make you feel uncomfortable or unwelcome. No one should have to endure constant criticism, especially in a supposed act of hospitality. Communication and setting boundaries are key to maintaining healthy relationships and ensuring your well-being is protected.